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Maybe It’s Not You

Online Therapy for Relationship Stress & Difficult Relationships

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Common Signs of Relationship Stress

You constantly second-guess yourself.

You find yourself questioning your feelings, memories, decisions, or whether you're “overreacting.”

You struggle to express your needs.

You worry about disappointing others, creating conflict, or being seen as difficult when you speak up.

You feel responsible for other people's emotions.

You spend a lot of energy keeping the peace, managing reactions, or making sure everyone else is okay.

You have difficulty setting boundaries.

You know you need to say no or create distance, but guilt, fear, or anxiety makes it difficult to follow through.

You feel emotionally drained.

Certain relationships leave you exhausted, anxious, overwhelmed, or disconnected from yourself.

You keep questioning whether the problem is you.

Even when something feels wrong, you find yourself taking responsibility or wondering whether you’re  being too sensitive.

Our Focus

Difficult Relationships

Navigate relationships that leave you feeling overwhelmed, confused, or emotionally drained. Gain clarity around unhealthy patterns, understand what you need, and learn how to respond differently.

Relational Stress

Work through the impact of manipulation, control, gaslighting, criticism, or other painful relationship dynamics while rebuilding confidence and trust in yourself.

Boundaries & Self-Trust

Learn to recognize and honor your needs, set boundaries without being consumed by guilt, and develop a stronger sense of self in your relationships.

Common Signs of Narcissistic Personality

  • ​Difficulty taking accountability: Blaming others, shifting responsibility, or becoming defensive when confronted about hurtful behavior.
     

  • Unpredictable hot-and-cold behavior: Alternating between affection, attention, and idealization and periods of withdrawal, criticism, or emotional distance.
     

  • Lack of empathy: Dismissing, minimizing, or showing little concern for your feelings, needs, or experiences.
     

  • Need for control and admiration: Expecting special treatment, seeking constant validation, or reacting negatively when you set boundaries or disagree.
     

  • Devaluation and manipulation: Criticizing, belittling, guilt-tripping, or twisting situations in ways that leave you feeling confused or questioning yourself.
     

  • Lack of self-awareness: Having limited insight into how their behavior affects others, while viewing themselves as justified or as the victim in conflicts.

Our Approach 

1

Feel Understood

You don’t have to have it all figured out. We’ll listen to your experiences, and help you make sense of what you’ve been going through without judgment or pressure.

2

Gain Clarity

Understand the patterns contributing to your relationship difficulties and recognize what is and isn't in your control. Reconnect with your needs, values, and instincts so you can live with greater confidence.

3

Reconnect

Learn to communicate your needs, set boundaries, and navigate relationships without abandoning yourself in the process. Strengthen your ability to honor your needs without being overwhelmed by guilt or fear.

Our Therapists 

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Diana Hamawi

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist 

Specializes in relational trauma, emotional abuse, and narcissistic abuse, with certification as a Narcissistic Abuse Treatment Clinician. Her approach combines warmth, insight, and practical tools to help clients reconnect with themselves, strengthen boundaries, and create healthier relationships.

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Juliana Chhouk

Associate Marriage & Family Therapist

Works with clients navigating difficult relationships, relational stress, and emotional challenges. Her compassionate, collaborative approach helps clients gain clarity, strengthen boundaries, and develop healthier ways of relating to themselves and others.

We're Human First. Therapists Second.

We believe great therapists don't just study healing; they've experienced the vulnerability and growth that comes from doing their own internal work. That perspective allows us to show up with genuine authenticity, deep insight, and compassion. Because therapy is far too important to be practiced only from a textbook. 

How It Works

1

Book an Appointment 

Request an appointment in just a few minutes using our online booking platform.

2

Complete Intake Paperwork

Once your appointment is approved, you’ll receive an email with intake forms to complete before your appointment.

3

Meet With Your Therapist

You’ll receive an email with a secure link to join your virtual session.

Frequently Asked Questions

What if I'm not sure what's happening in my relationship?

Most people come to therapy feeling confused rather than certain. You may find yourself constantly questioning your feelings, blaming yourself for problems, or wondering if you're "too sensitive." Therapy can help you better understand your relationship, make sense of your experiences, and gain clarity without judgment or pressure.

Why do I feel like I'm the problem?

Difficult relationships can leave you questioning your thoughts, feelings, and even your own reality. You may find yourself wondering if you're too much, apologizing for things that aren't your fault, or feeling responsible for someone else's emotions. Therapy can help you better understand these patterns, rebuild self-trust, and reconnect with reality.

Why do I feel anxious even when nothing is wrong?

When you've spent a long time walking on eggshells or anticipating conflict, your mind and body can become stuck in survival mode. You may notice yourself overthinking conversations, feeling on edge, or worrying about upsetting others, even in situations that are safe. Therapy can help you better understand these patterns and begin feeling more grounded, confident, and emotionally secure.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

If your relationship has left you feeling anxious, emotionally exhausted, disconnected from yourself, or unsure of what's healthy anymore, therapy can help. You don't have to have everything figured out before reaching out. Together, we can help you better understand your experiences, strengthen your sense of self, and build healthier relationships.

What does healing look like?

Healing doesn't mean pretending the past never happened. It means learning to trust yourself again, rebuilding your confidence, setting healthier boundaries, and creating relationships that feel safe, supportive, and emotionally fulfilling. Over time, many people find they feel more like themselves again.

Turn Chaos into Clarity

You do not have to navigate difficult relationships alone. Get the support you deserve from a therapist who gets it.

Contact Us

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Phone: 951-406-6473

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